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In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
heartathomeSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
Hi @Shaz51 I hope the flu is on its last legs! I've had a very slow day today. I did have a shower this morning which is something I've achieved today. I've got my partner down from Queensland for another five days. Unfortunately, we have to attend his brother's funeral. I didn't know him that well even though I've been with his brother for 22 years! My partner is on the spectrum and is dealing with it in his own unique way. It's good to be able to support him! 💛
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
Shaz51Community Guide
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
well done for having a shower today and supporting your partner through the death of his brother @heartathome😍
yes this annoying flu is on its way out , finally , it is because of my kidney disease stage 4 , 17% with only one kidney that the recovery took longer
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
NightFurySenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
Me too @Shaz51 just made my third cuppa for the day, too.
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
heartathomeSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
Thank you @Shaz51 I just asked AI about stage 4 kidney disease. It said you can still live a long, healthy life. Is that right? Now I just read that you only have that one kidney!!! 😲 How does that work? Far out Shaz51. Will you be okay? Please don't answer if it will trigger you. I sometimes ask too many questions!! Sorry. 💛
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
Shaz51Community Guide
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
I found out I was only born with one kidney @heartathome
stage 4 kidney disease, the kidney is only working at 17% which means the kidney is struggling to do it job which causes all the toxins to be released into the body which causing other complications like heart disease, diabetes, osteoporosis, osteoarthritis, and other problems like aches and pains and tiredness
I need to have regular blood tests to see how everything is going, I am heading towards dialysis in the near future which I will be on for the rest of my life or get a Kidney transplant
In response to: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
GezzaPSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
It’s raining here @Shaz51 . How’s your flu? Just watched women’s footy was a good game I missed half of it because I fell asleep. Will join you in a cuppa I think.
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
heartathomeSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
I'm sorry to hear that @Shaz51😔 It doesn't sound good! Are you on a list for a transplant or do you go on dialysis first off? How long have you known about your kidney? Enough questions for you for one night! 😉 I only ask questions because I want to get to know people more deeply. I know not everyone is up for sharing on such a personal level. Thanks for sharing this with me Shaz! 💛
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
ChasingsunsetsSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
I missed this one @Shaz51, I loveeeee the dog pic so much 🐶🐾💜
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
ChasingsunsetsSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
Awesome bracelet @avant-garde !! Love the design you have created 💜
Thanks for the thread link @Shaz51 will definitely have a read and hope to chat there too, I am definitely thinking of you during this time. Have you heard of home dialysis? I knew someone on that some time ago but not sure now it works re approval/suitability for it. Obviously massive and not great that it will lead to dialysis but wondered if this is an option for you
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
ChasingsunsetsSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
My apologies @avant-garde 🫶, awesome job I love how creative you are! Could you send me some of your creativity in the mail? Hehe
@Shaz51 wow, it’s a lot isn’t it. I have lots of questions but maybe I flip to your thread? When will they decide to do the fistula and stuff? Big hugs @Shaz51
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
ChasingsunsetsSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
I have a frog symphony going just thinking if I should put the ue boom on 😅😅 they increase there volume it’s so cute 🐸🐸
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
GezzaPSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
No frogs here @Chasingsunsets . Watching AFL women. Cat on my lap making me hot. Having a night sweat/hot flush. Probably because it’s humid here we’re having a thunderstorm and lots of rain today. I have a huge puddle in front of my garage.
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
ChasingsunsetsSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
Oh @GezzaP less loud then where you are!! Haha hope the cricket is good I am sure @Judi9877 might be watching too 😊
A thunderstorm sounds good, does it make it cooler I love when it rains makes it cooler here haha
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
CATT teams are not good events for me, doesn’t matter if it is for me or a loved one.
I am disgusted in people in the field pulling that stunt.
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
heartathomeSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
Hi @Jason_and_me It's nice to meet you. I hope we can catch up throughout our journeys on the forums! 💛
In response to: Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
GezzaPSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
Good morning! Yes @Chasingsunsets rain makes it cooler. It is still balmy though. Going to be warm today (28) and horrid 33 Monday too hot for me. I’ll have to put shorts on. Still cool at this early hour. Don’t know if it’s still raining. Can’t hear any but I have tile roof. Will get out in the garden early.
In response to: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
CuddlebearSenior Contributor
Re: Saturday Soiree -- 22nd November 2025
@Shaz51 How are you lovely? How’s the weekend going? I don’t have any plans.